Emotional Impact & Support
Volunteering is incredibly rewarding — but it can also be emotionally challenging. This section is about looking after you.
It's okay to feel affected.
Listening to someone's loneliness, witnessing their struggles, or dealing with loss can take a toll. Acknowledging that is a strength, not a weakness.
Common Emotional Responses
You might experience:
- Sadness after hearing about someone's isolation or life story
- Frustration when you can't fix someone's problems
- Anxiety before visits, especially in the early days
- Grief if a service user passes away or becomes seriously unwell
- Guilt if you need to take a break or reduce your availability
- Emotional fatigue — feeling drained after visits
All of these are normal and human responses. They show you care.
What You Can Do
- Talk about it — share how you're feeling with your coordinator or a trusted friend
- Attend debriefs and peer support sessions — you'll realise you're not alone
- Set boundaries for yourself — it's okay to step back when you need to
- Practice self-care — rest, hobbies, exercise, time with loved ones
- Keep a journal if it helps you process your experiences
- Remember why you started — your presence genuinely matters
When to Seek Additional Support
Please reach out to your coordinator or the contacts below if you experience:
- Persistent low mood or anxiety related to volunteering
- Difficulty sleeping or concentrating
- Feeling overwhelmed or unable to cope
- Intrusive thoughts about a service user's situation
Support Available
Your Coordinator: Emma-Jane Lovell — 07861 210632
Samaritans: 116 123 (free, 24/7)
C.A.L.L. Helpline (Wales): 0800 132 737 or text "Help" to 81066
Counselling Referrals: www.bookcounselling.com